people want to put your issues in small boxes, so they can search new victims for the new boxes.

because of that, we dont want to see a new UNKNOWN personality (new issue) he/she makes us uncomfortable.

we are so busy to know new people, we see ourselves very important person! then, we dont want a new flirt, if this has a dead end.

this seems so superficial and unreal. you are right, this is not real. the reality is that: we want to be loved, because we are so alone and we fear from everything, especially new ones. so we want to be loved, and we want to hear it all the time.

these two different reason go to same conclusion: we want to know other’s feelings, and there is nothing wrong about it. we care about other’s thoughts, attitudes, and many other irrelevant (?) things. we are just humans.

himm, if curiosity turns to anxiety, then there is a problem. but, again, this is just about humanity.

curiosity does not kill the cat