Taking the first step
This is one of the favorites of monthly magazines that cover things like relationships, men and women, etc.
Why do we feel difficulty on taking the fisrt step to know her/him? What is so uneasy with this?
Taking risks are always an area of the unknown. We may be very afraid with the fact that we are going to get rejected, humiliated, etc.
However, you can try to think yourself as the person, that being in her/his shoes, how would you reacty to someone that tries to know you better?
How would you reply if someone wants to have a drink with you? How would you behave towards somebody that calls you and invites you to dinner? Would you always yell at them? Probably not.
So, you are not the only one that can behave kind to people that asks something from you. Many people won’t immediately reject you or humiliate you in any way that you are afraid from.
You should just begin to try and take yourself out of that prison which is built by your own hands and mind.
Try it. Better now.
February 28th, 2006