Sex and Relationships

Impotence may mean that you don’t want to please her

Sometimes, psychological impotence may just be an indicator that you are angry towards her and you don’t want to please her for the moment.

Men usually tend to feel weak whenever an impotence arises. They tend to think that they are not man enough. It is a great trouble for them that their most important sex-toy is not functioning.

Impotence may have medical causes like mulfunction in the blood-vessels, or heart related diseases, and alike. However, there are also psychological reasons of impotence that can be solved through talk therapy, meditation, or some technique that will uncover the underlying anxiety.

Some psychological factors may be every-day-life related stresses but some factors are purely related with your relationship. An erected penis, is a wonderful tool for a man to please his wife/lover/girlfriend/etc. Sometimes, a not-functioning penis may tell you about that you just don’t want to please her, unconsciously. Reasons for this punishment may vary.

Most effective way of handling this and going through it is talking. Talk to your partner about what makes you angry, breaks your heart. If not, try to listen to yourself and understand what kind of anger may have caused you to cease pleasing her.

Don’t forget that this is only one approach and just a possibility about your impotence. There may be many other reasons, or it may be that you just don’t want to have sex for that moment only.

Enjoy life.

2 comments February 11th, 2006

You don’t need to understand where this flirt is going

Well, most of the time, all of us wonder whether she/he really likes us or is this just what we want to believe.

In fact, this is not the most important thing. Think about the difference between having sex for a quick orgasm and having sex with the one you care for, you love. In the latter, you always feel eager to sense her/his body, and enjoy “the moment” instead of focusing on having an orgasm. Of course, at the and, “coming” makes great sense in this second choice.

Like it occurs in making love, sleeping together, flirting is a process in which you don’t really have to know immediately what she/he thinks and feels about you. If that causes anxiety, you should sit back and try to enjoy the process of knowing her/him and sharing some nice daydream together.

This is really very important because this anxiety may cause many relationship to end before it really starts. By the time you get really anxious about what she/he feels towards you, you may fall into some behavior that in fact you would never committ otherwise.

Therefore, it is best to let yourself go in a relationship instead of thinking about what may happen tomorrow or even two hours later.

Enjoy life.

2 comments February 11th, 2006